Have you ever met someone and thought, “I want to make a change in their life; even if it’s a small gesture”? If you have, then you might have wondered how to do so, especially if it’s a “special person”. Wonder no further. Here are our suggestions.
Upgrade something of their so that their old thing feels brand new
Most of us are pretty bored with our lives; especially with what surrounds us every day. Unfortunately, not all of us have the ability or the finances to bring a change with our material things. Be it that the home we’re living in, the phone we use or the vehicle we drive, more often that not, we are stuck with one model; unable to upgrade into something better suiting our needs. If the person you have in mind to make a difference to happens to be driving an old vehicle, living in a poorly colored home, or using an older phone, you can upgrade it to make a difference in their life. Depending on your budget, you can choose from body lift kits Toyota Hilux to a few simple buckets of paint.
Teach them something useful or sponsor for them to study as they wish
if you feel that simply upgrading something will not make a difference in their life (even if it’s a body lift kit Mitsubishi Pajero), then consider giving them something money cannot measure; knowledge. If you are well aware of a certain subject, or an expert in a certain skill, consider passing this knowledge to them. If you feel you are not a good teacher, of if you have nothing to interest them, consider sponsoring for their education. This way, they can choose what they learn. Trust us when we say that this might even change the course of their life.
Believe in their dreams…motivate them to hold on and try harder
Whether we admit it or not, most of us live among the bits and pieces of our broken dreams. Sure, we manage to make some of our dreams come true; if we’re lucky, it would be the important ones that make it to success. If you feel your “special person” hold a dream close to his/her heart, and lacks the confidence to pursue it, then you simply being there, encouraging them and actually believing in their dreams could make the world to them. Many of the big achievers of today’s world only made it up there due to their own belief in their dreams, as well as the belief in those around them.
Volunteer to help with something, even if you’re not asked to help
Sometimes, no matter how a difficult situation we are to face, some of us hesitate to ask for help. Mostly because we know how everyone is busy in their own lives, and we don’t want to cause any disruption. If your “special person” is going through a tough day or week, consider doing a few of their chores without being asked. Bring dinner home to them. These gestures will be appreciated any way; but if it’s done without being asked, it lets them know that you actually care, and that you’ve got their back. This feeling of security can change someone’s life…